北归雁 发表于 2017-5-17 10:58:20

【荐读】厚道人的三种品质

<section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 微软雅黑; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section class="" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="88159" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border: 0px none;"><section style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section class="__bg_gif" data-order="0" data-width="100%" style="max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; width: 670px; vertical-align: top; box-sizing: border-box !important; background-image: url(http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/cZV2hRpuAPgbHyW9JLVGVygYHNEx5OYce0m8qDmrb0umhicJibAu6AmiauHd8vTN4uH8QOoThVCoEd2T5Eb99LDow/s640?&amp;); background-attachment: scroll; background-size: 100.439%; background-position: 0% -79.8246%; background-repeat: repeat;"><section style="margin-top: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="padding-right: 20px; padding-left: 20px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-align: justify; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(98, 42, 54);"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 18px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">  “君子以厚德载物。”厚道之人,能驾驭自我,驰骋四海;厚道之人,能海纳百川,以德服人。人们都愿意与厚道之人交往,因为他们能让人感到放心,让人觉得可以信任。但纷繁世界,千人千面,每个人的性格都有自己的特点,有什么办法可以看出一个人是厚道还是慢待呢?关键就在观察其精神内涵。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 18px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 18px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">  如果一个人拥有以下这三种品质,那么,我们可以说这个人基本是一个厚道之人了。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><section class="" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="85798" data-color="rgb(255, 129, 36)" data-custom="rgb(255, 129, 36)" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border: 0px none;"><section class="" style="margin-right: auto; margin-left: auto; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section class="" data-width="100%" style="padding: 5px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border: 1px solid rgb(255, 129, 36); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); width: 630px; border-radius: 4px;"><section style="padding: 5px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border: 1px dashed rgb(255, 129, 36); color: inherit; border-radius: 4px;"><section style="margin: 5px; max-width: 100%; color: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; color: rgb(255, 129, 36); border-color: rgb(255, 129, 36); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 20px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong class="" data-brushtype="text" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">厚道之人,必定心存善念</strong></span></p></section></section></section></section></section><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 18px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">  厚道与才能、学识无关,它是一种关乎人性的美德。要是一个人永远只会考虑自己、不考虑他人,那他的心胸则不够豁达。能称得上厚道之人,必是处处能为他人着想之人。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 18px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 18px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">  为他人着想,就是希望他人的生活过得幸福美满。为他人着想,就是希望他人的生活少点困顿苦难。因此,这种人基本都能够做到换位思考。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 18px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 18px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">  古人言,不以恶小而为之,不以善小而不为。虽然换位思考只是一个小小的善行,但是厚道之人大抵都有这种品质。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-indent: 32px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="text-align: center; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><section class="" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="85798" data-color="rgb(255, 129, 36)" data-custom="rgb(255, 129, 36)" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border: 0px none;"><section class="" style="margin-right: auto; margin-left: auto; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section class="" data-width="100%" style="padding: 5px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border: 1px solid rgb(255, 129, 36); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); width: 630px; border-radius: 4px;"><section style="padding: 5px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border: 1px dashed rgb(255, 129, 36); color: inherit; border-radius: 4px;"><section style="margin: 5px; max-width: 100%; color: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; color: rgb(255, 129, 36); border-color: rgb(255, 129, 36); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 20px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong class="" data-brushtype="text" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">厚道之人,必定立身正直</strong></span></p></section></section></section></section></section><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 18px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">  如果说善良意味着为他人着想,那么,正直的含义则是遇事能够以“是否对错”的标准来加以衡量。厚道之人必是正直之人,他们有一套明确而且牢固的价值观,在小事大事面前都能作出合乎人情道理的判断。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 18px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 18px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">  正直之人,遇事不会单纯根据利益作出判断,而是反复观察自己的良心,什么是可以容忍的,什么是不能原谅的。他们的心中有一条界线,心头有一把尺刃。一旦越过了这条界线,他们就马上警觉起来,采取行动维护自己的是非观。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-indent: 32px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><section class="" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="85798" data-color="rgb(255, 129, 36)" data-custom="rgb(255, 129, 36)" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border: 0px none;"><section class="" style="margin-right: auto; margin-left: auto; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section class="" data-width="100%" style="padding: 5px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border: 1px solid rgb(255, 129, 36); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); width: 630px; border-radius: 4px;"><section style="padding: 5px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border: 1px dashed rgb(255, 129, 36); color: inherit; border-radius: 4px;"><section style="margin: 5px; max-width: 100%; color: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; color: rgb(255, 129, 36); border-color: rgb(255, 129, 36); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 20px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong class="" data-brushtype="text" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">厚道之人,必定做事严谨</strong></span></p></section></section></section></section></section><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 18px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">  孔子曰:“君子泰而不骄,小人骄而不泰。”所谓“泰”,就是稳如泰山,就是处事严谨,这样的人是能够让他人信任之人,这样的人是能够让他人放心之人,因此也才能被称为厚道之人。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 18px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 18px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">  厚道的人做事一定是严谨的,凡事都能落到实处,对每一个细节、每一个不起眼的地方都能有敏锐的洞察力,并坚决将细小问题解决好。处事严谨,方能称得上厚道之人。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 18px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 18px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">  厚道,不是无的放矢,容忍他人肆意违反原则。厚道,也不是一味地做“老好人”,宁愿自己的权益被屡屡侵犯,也不提出抗议。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 18px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 18px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">  厚道是一种建立在明辨是非基础上的包容和宽心,因此,他们处事的方式极为严谨。当我们在生活中遇到这样的人时,应该多加交往,并师从其心。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section></section></section><section style="margin-top: -40px; margin-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; text-align: right; transform: translate3d(0px, 0px, 0px); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section></section></section></section><p><br></p><hr><p>来源:文摘报(ID:wenzhaibao),综合党建网微平台(ID:zxbdjw)</p></section><p><br></p>
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