2岁男童闹别扭,被妈妈撇在路上,惨遭车辆碾压!
<p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(217, 33, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(217, 33, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="line-height: 1.5; text-indent: 0em;">这个视频看得人太揪心了!</strong></span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(217, 33, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">6月12日,广东佛山</span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(217, 33, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">一名两岁男童和妈妈闹别扭,</span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(217, 33, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">被妈妈撇在路上,30秒不到,</span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(217, 33, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">男童就被一辆小车撞倒并卷入车底…</span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important;">戳现场监控视频↓</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font color="#3e3e3e"><span style="line-height: 25.6px;">https://v.qq.com/x/page/i0514481mwq&auto=1</span></font></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="line-height: 25.6px;">事发过程是这样的!</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(217, 33, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">①两岁男童和妈妈闹别扭,<span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6; box-sizing: border-box !important;">被妈妈撇下在路中央。</span></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(217, 33, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(217, 33, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">②仅30秒左右,<span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6; box-sizing: border-box !important;">一辆驶入停车场的小车径直朝男童碾压过去。</span></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(217, 33, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 25.6px; color: rgb(217, 33, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">③妈妈发现马上跑回来不停拍打车大声呼救。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 25.6px; color: rgb(217, 33, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="gif_img_wrp" style="max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; font-size: 0px; font-weight: 400; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(217, 33, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">④<span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">附近的十几位街坊路人迅速赶来,</span></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(217, 33, 66); line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">大家合力抬起车头,成功解救出被压车底的男童。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6; box-sizing: border-box !important;">最后路人还用摩托车送男童和妈妈前往医院,目前孩子仍留院治疗,无生命危险。</span><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; 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max-width: 100%; border-width: 1px; border-top-style: solid; border-right-style: solid; border-bottom-style: solid; border-color: rgb(195, 16, 16); line-height: 25px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">奥地利心理学家阿尔弗雷德 阿德勒曾在《儿童的人格教育》一书中讲到了对“熊孩子”单纯使用“管教手段”带来的弊病:<br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“<span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(217, 33, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">人们常常以为,孩子哭闹不讲道理,</strong></span>是天生的气质差异。其实不然,这些孩子在家中,从来没有完整表达过自己的需要。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(217, 33, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">妈妈为他准备好了一切,他没有感到需要讲道理的需要,他能做的只是服从,从而丧失了真正需要讲道理时的交流能力,进而丧失了社会适应能力。”</span></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">尝试理解孩子,记住一点很重要——<span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(217, 33, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">孩子并不是缩微版的大人,孩子并不会生来就知道世界的模样,一点一滴的小道理和小知识都需要大人的教导。</strong></span></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">英国心理学大师唐纳德 W 温尼科特举过一个例子来讲幼儿和大人思维方式的差异:</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">如果一个小女孩跟爸爸说“想要飞”,爸爸不会告诉他“小孩子不会飞”,相反的,他爸爸会把她举起来,扛在头顶上飞来飞去,再把她抱到柜子上面,让她觉得自己好像一只小鸟,回到了鸟巢。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">温尼科特指出,两岁到四岁的小孩同时活在两个世界中,一个是我们跟小孩分享的世界,另一个则是小孩自己想象的世界。这两个世界重叠在一起,所以孩子能够比大人能够更强烈地经历它。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">总之,<span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(217, 33, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">孩子本来就不知道这个世界的真实模样,我们却以大人的水平去要求孩子应对真实的世界,通过“管教”来要求服从,这显然舍本逐末了。越早和孩子讲道理(而不是谈条件),孩子才更容易讲道理。</strong></span></span></p></blockquote></article></section><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(217, 33, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">孩子哭闹,家长小惩小戒是常事,</span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(217, 33, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">但孩子不懂事大人要懂事!</span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(217, 33, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">惩戒孩子要注意场合地点,</span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(217, 33, 66); 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