人际交往的5条潜规则，没人明白，但很重要！
<div class="wx_rich_media_content" id="jsWxContainer"><p data-mpa-powered-by="yiban.io" style='max-inline-size: 100%; margin: 5px 8px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong style='max-inline-size: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-inline-size: 100%; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;max-inline-size: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;'></span></span></strong></p><p style='max-inline-size: 100%; margin: 5px 8px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br></p><p style='max-inline-size: 100%; margin: 5px 8px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong style='max-inline-size: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-inline-size: 100%; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>- 01 -</span></strong></p><p style='max-inline-size: 100%; margin: 5px 8px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br></p><p style='max-inline-size: 100%; margin: 5px 8px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-inline-size: 100%; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>知乎上有这么一个问题：<strong style='max-inline-size: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>大家都当过首富，为什么马云的粉丝比马化腾、王健林都要多呢？</strong></span></p><p style='max-inline-size: 100%; margin: 5px 8px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br></p><p style='max-inline-size: 100%; margin: 5px 8px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-inline-size: 100%; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>所有高赞的回答都有一个共同点：<strong style='max-inline-size: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>马老师拥有超强的口才、超棒的沟通表达能力！</strong>他言语有趣，既善于发散思维，又善于归纳总结，有条有理，辩论能力强悍。</span></p><p style='max-inline-size: 100%; margin: 5px 8px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br></p><p style='max-inline-size: 100%; margin: 5px 8px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-inline-size: 100%; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>无论面对谁，都只有他吹牛逼，别人洗耳恭听的份儿。当年投资人孙正义只和他谈了五分钟，就决定投资两千万美元。</span></p><p style='max-inline-size: 100%; margin: 5px 8px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br></p><p style='max-inline-size: 100%; margin: 5px 8px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-inline-size: 100%; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;max-inline-size: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;'></span></span></p><p style='max-inline-size: 100%; margin: 5px 8px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br></p><p style='max-inline-size: 100%; margin: 5px 8px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-inline-size: 100%; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>这些年来，马老师金句频出，比如“<span style='max-inline-size: 100%; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; box-sizing: border-box !important;'> </span></span><span style='max-inline-size: 100%; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(255, 169, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong style='max-inline-size: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-inline-size: 100%; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>绝大多数的人是因为看见而相信，只有少数的人是因为相信而看见</span></strong></span><span style='max-inline-size: 100%; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>”、</span></p><p style='max-inline-size: 100%; margin: 5px 8px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br></p><p style='max-inline-size: 100%; margin: 5px 8px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-inline-size: 100%; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>“</span><span style='max-inline-size: 100%; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(255, 169, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong style='max-inline-size: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-inline-size: 100%; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>我们没有办法跟别人拼昨天，我们也许也没有办法跟别人拼今天，但我们必须跟别人拼未来</span></strong></span><span style='max-inline-size: 100%; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>”。</span></p><p style='max-inline-size: 100%; margin: 5px 8px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br></p><p style='max-inline-size: 100%; margin: 5px 8px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-inline-size: 100%; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>这些充满正能量的话语，激励着无数的人不断努力向上。也难怪马老师坐拥粉丝无数了。</span></p><p style='max-inline-size: 100%; margin: 5px 8px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br></p><p style='max-inline-size: 100%; margin: 5px 8px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong style='max-inline-size: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-inline-size: 100%; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>- 02 -</span></strong></p><p style='max-inline-size: 100%; margin: 5px 8px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br></p><p style='max-inline-size: 100%; margin: 5px 8px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-inline-size: 100%; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>同样被公认高情商、会讲话的黄渤，他的说话之道，也值得大家学习——</span></p><p style='max-inline-size: 100%; margin: 5px 8px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br></p><p style='max-inline-size: 100%; margin: 5px 8px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-inline-size: 100%; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>之前马云就问过黄渤一个刁钻的问题：<strong style='max-inline-size: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>我长得怎么样？</strong></span></p><p style='max-inline-size: 100%; margin: 5px 8px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br></p><p style='max-inline-size: 100%; margin: 5px 8px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-inline-size: 100%; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>这个问题还真不好回答。要说帅气的话，未免太敷衍奉承，马老师还真不能靠脸吃饭，但是要说长得丑的话，也十分不礼貌。</span></p><p style='max-inline-size: 100%; margin: 5px 8px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br></p><p style='text-align: center; max-inline-size: 100%; margin: 5px 8px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-inline-size: 100%; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;max-inline-size: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;'></span></span></p><p style='max-inline-size: 100%; margin: 5px 8px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br></p><p style='max-inline-size: 100%; margin: 5px 8px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-inline-size: 100%; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>之后黄渤直接说：<strong style='max-inline-size: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>咱俩差不多。</strong>他没有直接说长相，说得委婉又很巧妙，实在令人佩服。</span></p><p style='max-inline-size: 100%; margin: 5px 8px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br></p><p style='max-inline-size: 100%; margin: 5px 8px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-inline-size: 100%; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>前段时间，黄渤和马云在一场活动中再次相遇，马云又问了黄渤一个很刁钻的问题：<strong style='max-inline-size: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>能不能免费给我代言？</strong></span></p><p style='max-inline-size: 100%; margin: 5px 8px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br></p><p style='max-inline-size: 100%; margin: 5px 8px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-inline-size: 100%; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>这句话明显就是在考验黄渤。一方面马云肯定是不缺钱，也不缺明星给他代言。另外一方面，黄渤作为一个艺人，工作必须都需要通过公司，并不能私自做决定。</span></p><p style='max-inline-size: 100%; margin: 5px 8px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br></p><p style='max-inline-size: 100%; margin: 5px 8px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-inline-size: 100%; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>面对马云这样的问题，黄渤回复马云说：<strong style='max-inline-size: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>我要一辆车就行。</strong>这句话也很让人疑惑，要知道黄渤名下的豪车也是不少，难道他还缺什么车吗？</span></p><p style='max-inline-size: 100%; margin: 5px 8px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br></p><p style='max-inline-size: 100%; margin: 5px 8px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-inline-size: 100%; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;max-inline-size: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;'></span></span></p><p style='max-inline-size: 100%; margin: 5px 8px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br style='max-inline-size: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></p><p style='max-inline-size: 100%; margin: 5px 8px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-inline-size: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); widows: 1;'>马云估计也是好奇，就问：什么车？黄渤一句话回应：<strong style='max-inline-size: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>一辆帮我清空购物车的车。</strong>说完连马云都笑了。</span></p><p style='max-inline-size: 100%; margin: 5px 8px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br></p><p style='max-inline-size: 100%; margin: 5px 8px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-inline-size: 100%; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>黄渤的这句话，用一种开玩笑的方式回复马云，既有礼貌，又不失风度。</span></p><p style='max-inline-size: 100%; margin: 5px 8px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br></p><p style='max-inline-size: 100%; margin: 5px 8px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong style='max-inline-size: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-inline-size: 100%; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(255, 169, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>黄渤的会说话不是讨好、奉承，没有逢场作戏的油腻，而是绵里针化春风，是恰到好处的舒服。</span></strong></p></div>
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