别高估人际关系，别低估人性规则
<div class="wx_rich_media_content" id="jsWxContainer"><section class="xmteditor" style='display:none;' data-tools="新媒体管家" data-label="powered by xmt.cn"></section><p class="XiGuaChajian" style='display:none;' data-tools="西瓜插件，运行于电脑浏览器上的插件，可在公众号后台找优质文章素材，一键美化排版，检测文章违规，查看任意公众号粉丝阅读数" data-label="Power by：chajian.xiguaji.com"><br></p><p style='margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 27.2px; letter-spacing: 0.54px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='color: rgb(69, 69, 69);letter-spacing: 1px;text-align: justify;'>微博上有个热</span><span style='color: rgb(69, 69, 69);letter-spacing: 1px;text-align: justify;'>门话题讨论：</span></p><p style='margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 27.2px; letter-spacing: 0.54px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='color: rgb(69, 69, 69);letter-spacing: 1px;text-align: justify;'><br></span></p><p style='margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 27.2px; letter-spacing: 0.54px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='color: rgb(69, 69, 69);letter-spacing: 1px;text-align: justify;'>#越来越</span><span style='color: rgb(69, 69, 69);letter-spacing: 1px;text-align: justify;'>多的成年人开始消失在朋友圈</span><span style='color: rgb(69, 69, 69);letter-spacing: 1px;text-align: justify;'>#</span></p><p style='margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 27.2px; letter-spacing: 0.54px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='color: rgb(69, 69, 69);letter-spacing: 1px;text-align: justify;'><br></span></p><h2><section data-role="paragraph" class=""><section class="" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="88928"><section><section class=""><section class="" data-id="14941" act="xmy"><section class=""><section><section class="" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="89172"><section class=""><section class=""><section><section class="" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="89172"><section class=""><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>网友们纷纷评论，也道出了背后的辛酸真相。</span></section><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style='max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><blockquote style='color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.5); max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>“越来越觉得自己渺小和不重要”</span><span style='max-width: 100%; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></span></strong></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>“其实根本没人关心你朋友圈写的是什么”......</span></strong><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></span></section></blockquote></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;width: 661.012px !important;'></span><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>是的，越来越多的成年人在做人生的减法，剔除不必要的社交。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>到了一定年纪，我们终将懂得，没人真正在意你。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>没人在意你今天穿了哪套衣服，也没人在意你究竟过得好不好，每个人都在自己的世界里忙活，无暇顾及你的喜怒哀乐。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>知乎上有个提问：与人交往最好的态度是什么？</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>有个高赞回答：</span><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>一个成年人与人交往的最好态度就是，做好自己，亲疏随缘。</span></strong><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>在成年人的世界里，不高估和任何人的关系，也不低估人性的规则，就是人际交往的真相。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 574px;height: 322px;'></span></span></section><section class="" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="90386" data-color="rgb(216, 40, 33)" style='max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; 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box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; line-height: 2em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='background-color: rgb(217, 33, 66);'><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-decoration-line: underline; box-sizing: border-box !important;'> 01 </span></strong></span><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; background-color: rgb(123, 12, 0); color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-decoration-line: underline; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></span></strong></section></section></section></article></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><ul class=" list-paddingleft-2"><li><section style='margin-bottom: 25px; max-width: 100%; line-height: 2em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='color: rgb(0, 0, 0);'><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>不要高估你和任何人的关系。</span></strong></span><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></span></strong><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section></li></ul><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>以前总觉得自己是世界的中心，父母、亲戚、朋友都围着自己转。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>渐渐长大才发现，我们只是自己世界的中心。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>记得沙溢在节目中曾略带忧桑地说：</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>“有一天晚上我翻看手机，发现除了我儿子给我发的信息，没有任何人给我发信息。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>以前总以为自己很重要，其实，每个人在别人心中都没有那么重要。”</span><span style='color: rgb(69, 69, 69);letter-spacing: 1px;'>在别人的世界里，我们终究只是配角，只有在自己的世界里，才是真正的主角。</span></section><p style='text-align: center;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 574px;height: 816px;'></span></p><p style='text-align: center;'><br></p><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>世态炎凉，时光流转，曾经心心念念的人，一个转身，就可能形同陌路。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>曾互诉衷肠的朋友，如今也少有联络；曾经相濡以沫的爱情，最后也无疾而终；</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>哪怕是亲近的亲人，也可能因为时空的阻隔而渐行渐远。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>于是，我们渐渐明白，对于有些人，可以期待，但不要依赖。</span><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'></span></strong></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>蔡康永说：“我鼓励大家做一个冷淡的人，过于热情不是一个人维持良好关系的方法。”</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>是啊，人与人之间走得太近会伤害，太远会疏忽，不远不近，恰到好处，才能相处不累。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>不要高估你和任何人的关系，到了一定年纪，你要学会给自己打伞。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>懂得自我欣赏，自我成全，才能活得肆意洒脱。</span></strong></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 558px;height: 372px;'></span></section><section class="" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="90386" data-color="rgb(216, 40, 33)" style='max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section data-width="100%" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section data-mpa-template="t" class="" mpa-paragraph-type="ignored" data-mpa-powered-by="yiban.io" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section data-mpa-template="t" class="" mpa-paragraph-type="ignored" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section data-author="Wxeditor" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><article class="" data-author="Wxeditor" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section class="" data-wxsrc="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/v4vz52CcB13JzTTXXg3mC439fK28gxRKDGnzLBX1Rm1yvuZYaVibibFLKzjw28tc48iayicA2r0TE0gF98zAZsJnDQ/0" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; line-height: 2em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='background-color: rgb(217, 33, 66);'><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-decoration-line: underline; box-sizing: border-box !important;'> 02 </span></strong></span><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; background-color: rgb(123, 12, 0); color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-decoration-line: underline; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></span></strong></section></section></section></article></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><ul class=" list-paddingleft-2"><li><section style='margin-bottom: 25px; max-width: 100%; line-height: 2em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='color: rgb(0, 0, 0);'><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>不要把一切视作理所当然。</span></strong></span><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></span></strong><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section></li></ul><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>有人说：“人性最大的恶，是不懂感恩。”</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>认为父母就应该任劳任怨，同事就应该竭尽全力，朋友就应该倾尽所有。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>但其实，这个世界上，没有什么是理所当然的。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>曾看到这样一句话：“我们应该记得别人的好，然后加倍偿还，而不是一味索取。”</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>懂得感恩，是人际关系的润滑剂，感情才能在岁月的洗礼下越来越浓厚。</span></strong></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>韩剧《请回答1988》中，德善妈妈因为家里困窘，向富裕的正焕妈妈借钱，可是话到嘴边，却怎么也说不出口，于是，悻悻而归。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>回到家却发现，正焕妈妈把钱藏在了菜篮子里，偷偷放在了德善家的窗台上，就离开了。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>感动之余，德善妈妈也并没有把帮助当成理所应当，而是想尽一切办法去回报，比如在德善爸爸发工资后，买了海鲜大餐送给大家分享。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>北野武在《北野武的小酒馆》中有这样一段关于友情的阐述：</span></section><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style='max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><blockquote style='color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.5); max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><p style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>“以前我帮过你，现在你为什么不帮我？</span></strong></p><p style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>想要从友谊中得到什么，这想法本身就错了。</span></strong></p><p style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>什么是真正的友谊？自己有难的时候也不愿意去麻烦朋友。”</span></strong><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></span></p></blockquote></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>是啊，那些总是打着朋友的旗号来占你便宜的人，不是真朋友，只是一种唯利是图的“伪朋友”。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>人到中年，应该明白：</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>真正的友谊，是不添麻烦；真正的亲情，是懂得感恩；真正的爱情，是彼此体谅。</span></strong></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 558px;height: 372px;'></span></section><section class="" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="90386" data-color="rgb(216, 40, 33)" style='max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section data-width="100%" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section data-mpa-template="t" class="" mpa-paragraph-type="ignored" data-mpa-powered-by="yiban.io" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section data-mpa-template="t" class="" mpa-paragraph-type="ignored" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section data-author="Wxeditor" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><article class="" data-author="Wxeditor" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section class="" data-wxsrc="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/v4vz52CcB13JzTTXXg3mC439fK28gxRKDGnzLBX1Rm1yvuZYaVibibFLKzjw28tc48iayicA2r0TE0gF98zAZsJnDQ/0" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; line-height: 2em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='background-color: rgb(217, 33, 66);'><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-decoration-line: underline; box-sizing: border-box !important;'> 03 </span></strong></span><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; background-color: rgb(123, 12, 0); color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-decoration-line: underline; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></span></strong></section></section></section></article></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><ul class=" list-paddingleft-2"><li><section style='margin-bottom: 25px; max-width: 100%; line-height: 2em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='color: rgb(0, 0, 0);'><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>不要在任何地方高看自己。</span></strong></span><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></span></strong><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section></li></ul><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>卡耐基曾写道：</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>“如果我们只是要在别人面前表现自己，使别人对我们感兴趣的话，我们将永远不会有许多真实而诚挚的朋友。”</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>生活中，那些妄自尊大、得意忘形的人，总是会引起别人的反感。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>而真正有能力的人，大多为人低调，不张扬。</span></strong></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>晚清重臣曾国藩，即便立下赫赫战功，享受高官厚禄，但依然为人低调。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>他曾给弟弟曾国荃寄去一封信，信中附了这样一首诗:</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='color: rgb(0, 0, 0);'><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>“</span><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>左</span></strong></strong><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>列钟铭右</span></strong><strong style='max-width: 100%; color: rgb(25, 25, 25); font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif; font-size: 28px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>谤</span></strong><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>书，</span></strong><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>人间随处有乘除；</span></strong><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>低头一拜屠羊说，万事浮云过太虚。”</span></strong></span><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></span></strong></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>是在告诫弟弟，千万不要因为暂时取得成绩就狂妄自大，越有功劳越要学会低调。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>不张扬，不忘形；低调做人，高调做事，才是对自己人生负责的态度。</span></strong></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>苹果公司首席执行官库克，是硅谷薪酬最高的高管之一，可即便被封为成功人士，他也一向以低调的姿态示人。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>库克常说：“我喜欢提醒自己来自哪里，将自己置身于不起眼的环境，有助于自己前行。”</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>不在任何地方高看自己，才能越过光环的束缚，看到自己的不足，更好地前行。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>低调的人总能摆正自己的位置，平淡、平静、平和，最终抵达内心的丰盈与澄明。</span></strong></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 558px;height: 717px;'></span></section><section class="" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="90386" data-color="rgb(216, 40, 33)" style='max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section data-width="100%" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section data-mpa-template="t" class="" mpa-paragraph-type="ignored" data-mpa-powered-by="yiban.io" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section data-mpa-template="t" class="" mpa-paragraph-type="ignored" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section data-author="Wxeditor" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><article class="" data-author="Wxeditor" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section class="" data-wxsrc="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/v4vz52CcB13JzTTXXg3mC439fK28gxRKDGnzLBX1Rm1yvuZYaVibibFLKzjw28tc48iayicA2r0TE0gF98zAZsJnDQ/0" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; line-height: 2em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='background-color: rgb(217, 33, 66);'><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-decoration-line: underline; box-sizing: border-box !important;'> 04 </span></strong></span><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; background-color: rgb(123, 12, 0); color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-decoration-line: underline; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></span></strong></section></section></section></article></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><ul class=" list-paddingleft-2"><li><section style='margin-bottom: 25px; max-width: 100%; line-height: 2em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='color: rgb(0, 0, 0);'><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>不要在任何地方低估他人。</span></strong></span><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></span></strong><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section></li></ul><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>俞敏洪曾说过：</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>“不要低估别人，因为每个人都有能力和优势长处，应该学会向每个人学习。”</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>人外有人，天外有天，放下自以为是的骄傲，才能赢得彼此的尊重。</span></strong></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>有一次，京剧大师梅兰芳在戏院演出《杀惜》，观众鼓掌喝彩，唯独一位衣着朴素的老人大声喊道：</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>“不好不好。”</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>听到这话，梅兰芳没有生气，而是在演戏结束之后，派车把老人恭恭敬敬地请回家，亲自向老人讨教。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>老人看他诚意可嘉，就告诉他刚才演戏时台步中存在的问题。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>梅兰芳听后恍然大悟，并连连道谢。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>从那以后，梅兰芳每次演出，都要请这位老人去观看评点，还把他奉为“老师”。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>不低估他人，懂得每个人都有优点，在尊重别人时，收获对方的尊重。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>尊重他人，是对别人的优点，去欣赏、去接纳、去赞美；是对别人不同的地方，不排斥、不藐视、不贬低。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>《孟子》有言：</span><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>爱人者，人恒爱之；</strong><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></strong><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>敬人者，人恒敬之。</strong></span><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></strong></span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>不以貌取人，不带有色眼镜看人，学会尊重他人，欣赏他人，才更能接近生命的繁华与美好。</span></strong></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 558px;height: 744px;'></span></section><section class="" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="90386" data-color="rgb(216, 40, 33)" style='max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section data-width="100%" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section data-mpa-template="t" class="" mpa-paragraph-type="ignored" data-mpa-powered-by="yiban.io" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section data-mpa-template="t" class="" mpa-paragraph-type="ignored" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section data-author="Wxeditor" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><article class="" data-author="Wxeditor" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section class="" data-wxsrc="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/v4vz52CcB13JzTTXXg3mC439fK28gxRKDGnzLBX1Rm1yvuZYaVibibFLKzjw28tc48iayicA2r0TE0gF98zAZsJnDQ/0" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; line-height: 2em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='background-color: rgb(217, 33, 66);'><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-decoration-line: underline; box-sizing: border-box !important;'> 05 </span></strong></span><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; background-color: rgb(123, 12, 0); color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-decoration-line: underline; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></span></strong></section></section></section></article></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><ul class=" list-paddingleft-2"><li><section style='margin-bottom: 25px; max-width: 100%; line-height: 2em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='color: rgb(0, 0, 0);'><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>时刻保持一颗谦逊的心。</span></strong></span><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></span></strong><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section></li></ul><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>尼采说：“谦逊基于力量，高傲基于无能。”</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>一个人内心越丰盈，才越谦卑，也更能体恤他人的感受。</span></strong></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>国学大师季羡林就有这样一件趣事。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>一年开学时，一名新生扛着行李袋四处跑，实在累得不行。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>看到一位老人，他以为是保安，就请求老人帮忙看一下行李，他去办入学手续。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>折腾半天，这位学生办完手续回来，发现老人还在原地，头顶着烈日帮他看行李。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>等到开学典礼时，学生才知道，那位衣着朴素、谦卑有礼的人，竟然就是副校长季羡林。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>一个谦逊的人，时刻保持亲切随和、谦虚包容，会让人感受到如沐春风般的温暖。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>《了凡四训》中有言： 唯谦受福。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>意思是说，只有具备谦虚之心的人，才能获得幸运与幸福。</span></strong></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>老子就曾对待人傲慢的阳子居说：“我以为你是可以成大器的人，现在看来，实在不堪教诲。”</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>听了老子的责备，阳子居跪在老子的门外聆听教诲。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>老子说：“君子与人相处，如同冰融于水那样自然融洽，与人共事，如同童子仆人那样谦逊低下。一个被他人敬而远之的人，别说成大器，就是立足于世也很难。”</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>阳子居这才恍然大悟，知道悔改。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>《道德经》中有言：</span><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>上善若水，水利万物而不争。</strong></span><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></strong></span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>一个谦逊的人，懂得更好地与自己相处，也可以与周围的万物和谐共生。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>成年以后，我们慢慢变得不争不吵不炫耀，不强求、不期待、不执着，这不是嘴上的佛系，而是从根本上明白了人际交往的真谛，理解了为人处世的本质。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>不高估人际关系，不低估人性规则。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>处处尊重他人，时时保持谦卑，用真正高级的活法，过完自己漫长的一生。</span></strong></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(69, 69, 69); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>共勉。</span></section><br></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></h2></div><p></p>
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