20条人际交往潜规则：没人明说，但很重要
<div class="wx_rich_media_content" id="jsWxContainer"><section style='display: none;' data-tools="新媒体管家" data-label="powered by xmt.cn"><br></section><section style='text-align: center;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-size: 12px; line-height: 1.6; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br></span></section><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com"><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>看过一个故事：<br></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>为了研究刺猬在寒冷冬天的习惯，生物学家将十几只刺猬放到户外的空地上。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>这些刺猬冻得瑟瑟发抖，为了取暖，只好彼此紧紧靠在一起。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>可靠拢后，又很快各自分开。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><strong><span style='font-size: 15px;'>因为，靠得太近，它们会被彼此身上的刺刺痛；离得太远，自身的温度又不足以抵抗寒冷。</span></strong></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>于是，刺猬们分了又聚，聚了又分，不断地在受冻与受刺之间挣扎。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>最后，终于找到了一个适中距离，既可以相互取暖，又不至于被彼此刺伤。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>叔本华曾说：</span></section><blockquote><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: rgb(136, 136, 136);'>“人就像寒冬里的刺猬，互相靠得太近会觉得刺痛彼此，离得太远又会感到寒冷。”</span></section></blockquote><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>人生在世，我们总是不可避免的要与许多人产生联系，如何把握彼此的距离，考验的不仅是能力，更是情商。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>今天，叔为大家整理总结了20条没人明说，但很重要的社交潜规则，一起来看。</span></section><section style='font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: center;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: #C00000;'><strong><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></strong></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: #C00000;'><strong><span style='font-size: 15px;'>社交的起点，是等价交换、各取所需。</span></strong></span><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>人与人之间交往，本质上是一个社会交换的过程，相互给予彼此所需要的。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>就像小孩子玩跷跷板，想要保持平衡，那么彼此的付出和回报就一定要对等，否则，跷跷板便会向一方倾斜而失衡。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: center;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: #C00000;'><strong><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></strong></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: #C00000;'><strong><span style='font-size: 15px;'>异性朋友相处，如若没了距离，最后的结局往往都是不欢而散。</span></strong></span><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>三毛曾说：</span></section><blockquote><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: rgb(136, 136, 136);'>“朋友再亲密，分寸不可差失。自以为熟，结果反易生隔离。”</span></section></blockquote><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>不和有伴侣的异性朋友深夜打很久的电话、聊很久的天；</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>不对异性朋友说可能会引起尴尬的话；</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>不做让异性朋友感到不适的肢体行为……</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>异性相处，想要长久的保持友谊，一定要懂得把握分寸，这不仅能看出一个人对待感情的态度，更能看出一个人为人处世的人品。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: center;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: #C00000;'><strong><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></strong></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: #C00000;'><strong><span style='font-size: 15px;'>早上9点前，中午12点至14点，晚上22点后，不要随便联系不熟悉的人。</span></strong></span><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>一般来说，这些时间属于正常人的休息时间。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>不是十万火急的事，千万不要随便打扰不熟悉的人。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>如果迫不得已需要打扰他人，那么一定要向他人说明情况并道歉。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-shadow: rgb(170, 170, 170) 0px 0px 14px 0px;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: center;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: #C00000;'><strong><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></strong></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: #C00000;'><strong><span style='font-size: 15px;'>百度能轻易搜到的问题，就不要问了。</span></strong></span><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>成年人的世界，每个人都有自己的事情要去做，也都有自己说不出口的不容易。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>懂得在小事上不麻烦别人的人，必然是一个动手能力很强、同时又懂得换位思考的人。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>这样的人，人缘一定不会差。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: center;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: #C00000;'><strong><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></strong></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: #C00000;'><strong><span style='font-size: 15px;'>二选一没有那么难，不要老说随便。</span></strong></span><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'> “随便”一词，听起来很随和、易相处，其实不然：</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>就拿吃饭来说，一句“随便”，别人不仅要考虑你的生活习惯，还要猜测你的饮食偏好。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>哪怕是最了解你的人，在已经全面考量，精心挑选后，却仍然有可能不能让你满意。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>吃饭尚且如此，更遑论其他。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: center;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: #C00000;'><strong><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></strong></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: #C00000;'><strong><span style='font-size: 15px;'>及时记住别人的名字。</span></strong></span><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>心理学家说过：</span></section><blockquote><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: rgb(136, 136, 136);'>“能第一时间叫出别人名字的人在社交中是最受欢迎的。”</span></section></blockquote><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>与人初打交道，记住对方的名字，能迅速拉近彼此之间的距离。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>因为没有人愿意承认自己无足轻重。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: center;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: #C00000;'><strong><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></strong></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: #C00000;'><strong><span style='font-size: 15px;'>借钱给别人，就要有要不回来的准备。</span></strong></span><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>很多人都有一个错觉：借钱给别人后，别人一定会按时还钱。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>之所以会这样，是因为大多数人都秉承着借钱及时还的原则。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>但事实上，你这样认为，并不等于别人也会这么认为。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>你是你，他是他。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>你不是世界的中心，他也不是你的投射。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>因此，在借钱之前，要做好准备，能要回来是幸运，要不回来也是预料之中，无需介怀。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: center;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><strong><span style='font-size: 15px;color: #C00000;'><br></span></strong></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><strong><span style='font-size: 15px;color: #C00000;'>电话号码，微信号能复制粘贴就别发截图。</span></strong><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>人际关系，往往死于细节。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>复制粘贴的举动虽小，却是非常的博好感。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>至少，给人的第一印象就很好。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-shadow: rgb(170, 170, 170) 0px 0px 14px 0px;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: center;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: #C00000;'><strong><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></strong></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: #C00000;'><strong><span style='font-size: 15px;'>答应别人的事，一定要做到，否则，请直接拒绝。</span></strong></span><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>华盛顿曾说：</span></section><blockquote><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: rgb(136, 136, 136);'>“一定要信守诺言，一定不要去做力所不及的承诺。”</span></section></blockquote><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>信任是人际交往的基础，也是做人的根本。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>想要建立起信任很难，但想要摧毁信任却很容易，只需要几次失信就可以达到。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>因此，在做出承诺之时，一定要量力而行。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: center;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: #C00000;'><strong><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></strong></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: #C00000;'><strong><span style='font-size: 15px;'>别人可以自嘲，但你不能附和。</span></strong></span><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>别人可以对自己的缺点进行自嘲，无论嘲讽的多么真实。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>但你不能跟着附和。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>要知道，很多自黑式的称呼和玩笑，自己说是一种谦虚，他人说则是一种蔑视。</span></section><section style='font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: center;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: #C00000;'><strong><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></strong></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: #C00000;'><strong><span style='font-size: 15px;'>会夸人，是最高级的生产力。</span></strong></span><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>蔡康永说：</span></section><blockquote><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: rgb(136, 136, 136);'>“别人骂你一句，你回骂他一句，这叫吵架。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: rgb(136, 136, 136);'><br>别人夸赞你一句，你回一句赞美，这叫社交。”</span></section></blockquote><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>赞美是博得人心最简单也最方便的途径。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>但要注意的是，赞美是看到了别人的闪光点后发自内心的赞叹，而不是为了赞美才赞美。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: center;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: #C00000;'><strong><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></strong></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: #C00000;'><strong><span style='font-size: 15px;'>不要把你太多的成功、开心分享给无关紧要的人。</span></strong></span><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>有人说：</span></section><blockquote><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: rgb(136, 136, 136);'>“别人不能感同身受我们的开心，这些，只会让别人变得嫉妒。”</span></section></blockquote><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>深以为然。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>这个世界上，真正为你开心的，除了父母，就只有那些真正爱你的爱人、以及朋友。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>大多数人，想听到你过得好，但绝对不想听到你过得比他好。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: center;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: #C00000;'><strong><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></strong></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: #C00000;'><strong><span style='font-size: 15px;'>雪里送炭的少，锦上添花的多。</span></strong></span><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>古人云：</span></section><blockquote><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: rgb(136, 136, 136);'>“穷在街头无人问，富在深山有远亲。”</span></section></blockquote><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>趋利避害是人之天性。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>与其感叹世态炎凉，不如早早明白靠人不如靠己。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-shadow: rgb(170, 170, 170) 0px 0px 14px 0px;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: center;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: #C00000;'><strong><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></strong></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: #C00000;'><strong><span style='font-size: 15px;'>把″我怎么知道"换成"我不知道"。</span></strong></span><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>疑问句到陈述句，转换的不只是语气，还有听者的心情。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>同理，能回答“是的”、“对的”、“没错”，就别回答“你说呢”。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: center;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: #C00000;'><strong><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></strong></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: #C00000;'><strong><span style='font-size: 15px;'>人际交往中学会克制负面情绪。</span></strong></span><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>人生在世，不如意事常八九。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>失意的时候，可以找人倾诉，但不要逢人就抱怨自己的不幸。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>要知道，你不是一个行走中的垃圾，别人更不是你的垃圾桶。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: center;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: #C00000;'><strong><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></strong></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: #C00000;'><strong><span style='font-size: 15px;'>不要从别人嘴里认识一个人。</span></strong></span><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>俗话说：</span></section><blockquote><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: rgb(136, 136, 136);'>“一千个读者，就有一千个哈姆雷特。”</span></section></blockquote><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>想要了解一个人，那就用心，用时间，去认识他。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>别人嘴里说出来的，不一定是事实；别人眼里看到的，也不一定就是全部。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: center;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: #C00000;'><strong><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></strong></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: #C00000;'><strong><span style='font-size: 15px;'>凡是大张旗鼓的指责，都有挽回的余地；而那些不声不响的离开，却再也回不来。</span></strong></span><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>两个人在一起，愿意吵，愿意闹，是因为对彼此还抱有期待；</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>反而是那些什么都不说的人，离开了，就真的不会再回来了。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>因为此时早已心如死灰，所以连说一句“再见”都显得多余。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-shadow: rgb(170, 170, 170) 0px 0px 14px 0px;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: center;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: #C00000;'><strong><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></strong></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: #C00000;'><strong><span style='font-size: 15px;'>事不可做太绝，话不可说太满。</span></strong></span><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>这个世界，唯一不变的就是一直在变。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>事不做绝，话不说满。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>既是给他人留有余地，亦是为自己铺平前路。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: center;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: #C00000;'><strong><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></strong></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: #C00000;'><strong><span style='font-size: 15px;'>轻易不说“如果是我就不会这样”。</span></strong></span><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>人生只有结果，没有如果。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>当一件事没有发生在自己身上的时候，那么请不要轻易否定别人。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>因为你永远都无法确定，当事情发生在自己身上时，你是否会比他做得更好。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: center;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: #C00000;'><strong><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></strong></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: #C00000;'><strong><span style='font-size: 15px;'>累了，不要等别人劝你休息。</span></strong></span><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>健康是一切的基础。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>你可以喜欢很多很多钱，想要很多很多的爱。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>但你更需要的，是很多很多的健康。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>没有健康，名利财富，也不过是个零，没有意义。</span></section><section style='font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: center;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>▽</span></section><section style='font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>成年人的世界，懂得社交礼仪、会好好说话即是一种能力，更是一种魅力。<br></span></section><section style='font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>以上，共勉！</span></section></section><section style='font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong style='max-width: 100%; line-height: 25.6px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: pre-wrap; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;white-space: normal;line-height: 25.6px;font-size: 15px;display: inline;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;width: auto !important;'></span></strong></strong></section><section style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br></section></div>
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