做爸爸，如何怒刷育儿存在感？
<div class="wx_rich_media_content" id="jsWxContainer"><section style='text-align: center; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;text-align: justify;font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;width: 100%;height: auto;'></span></section><section style='text-align: right;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='color: rgb(136, 136, 136); font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13.3333px; orphans: 4; white-space: pre-wrap; caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);'>Photo via Shutterstock</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;'><br></span></section><p style='text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;'>很遗憾。</span></p><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>虽然在我身边，对孩子上心的爸爸大有人在，但倾听整个社会，许多男人缺席亲子教育的评价声浪却始终不息。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>是太忙吗？应该不至于。事实已经证明，忙到一天只睡几个小时的男人，也能做好时间管理，腾出余暇做些自己感兴趣的事。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>是太懒吗？应该也不至于。真正懒的人，是懒得结婚生孩子的，从根源上就切断了心有羁绊的可能。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>所以，问题也许出在有些爸爸们不得要领，不知道每天只花十几分钟就能怒刷育儿存在感的诀窍，于是畏难逃避。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>那么，我就抛砖引玉，说说我的经验。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><strong style='color: rgb(255, 80, 80); font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; orphans: 4; white-space: pre-wrap; caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);'><span style='font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;'>▼</span></strong></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>最重要的，就是玩游戏。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>不是自己抱着手机躺在沙发上玩，而是有针对性地选择游戏，陪孩子玩。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>这里我推荐一款游戏，名字叫数独。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: center; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 15px;'>数独，相传起源于数学上的拉丁方阵，上世纪70年代在美国发展，之后流传至日本并发扬光大。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 15px;'>它是一款智力填数游戏，规则是将1到9这些数字，填满一个3×3的九宫格，并保证每一行、每一列、以及每一宫（图中粗线边框的小正方形）里，都出现9个数字，且数字不重复。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: center; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 15px;'>这游戏不涉及数学运算，小孩子也能玩，而且可以培养孩子的观察力、专注力和推理能力。当然，陪玩家长的中年脑力衰退，亦能得到有效缓解。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>在孩子小的时候，可以培养他们进行最基础的游戏练习。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>首先，根据孩子的喜好，准备不同图案的卡片数张。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: center; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 15px;'>然后，选取3种，摆进一个3×3的方格里，并引导孩子将空白处填满。规则是每一行、每一列3种图案都必须出现。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: center; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 15px;'>比如在上图中，第一行出现了小丑和鸭子，那空白处只能放汽车。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>放了汽车后，第三列的中间就只能放小丑。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;'>同理，可以依次推断出其他空白处的图案。</span><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;'></span></section><section style='text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='text-align: justify;font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;'>每天，可以抽一点时间，和孩子玩一玩这种简单的推理小游戏。同时，还能用这些卡片，练练孩子的记忆力。比如，摆好下图。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;'>孩子看了一两秒之后，将卡片翻面，让孩子回忆各个图案的位置。</span><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>宝宝，小鸭在哪里啊？</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>汽车呢？</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>那小丑呢？</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>当孩子渐渐长大，游戏能力提升了，就可以上一阶难度，将3×3的方格换成4×4。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>行和列的规则还是一样，只不过现在加了一条，上下左右四个小正方形里，每个图案也必须出现。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>我们可以引导孩子，先观察出现了3个图案的行或列。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>比如这个图中，第二行有了小熊、鸭子和小丑，那空白处就只能是汽车。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;'>第三列有了汽车、鸭子和小熊，那空白处就只能是小丑。</span><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;'>接下来，左上角的正方形里，有了小丑、汽车和小熊，那空白处就只能是鸭子。</span><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;'>同理，可以填完右上角和右下角的正方形。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>之后，对小朋友来说，可能就有一点难度了。左下角的正方形完全空白，该怎么填呢？</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>我们不妨从标有问号的格子入手。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>它所在的列，出现了小丑和汽车，那它只可能填小熊或鸭子。它所在的行，又已经有了鸭子，所以这个格子唯一的答案，就是小熊。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>填完这个小熊，剩下来的就简单了。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;'>与之前一样，我们也可以同步训练孩子的记忆力。比如，摆好下图。</span><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>孩子看了一两秒之后，将卡片翻面，让孩子回忆所有汽车的位置。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>如果孩子能轻松找出，那我们就加一点难度。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>再加一点难度。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;'>加更多的难度。</span><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>甚至可以让孩子，试着回忆多种图案的位置。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>而当孩子学会了简单的数字，不用再借助卡通图形也能完成初阶数独游戏时，我们就可以在小黑板上练习了。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>为什么不是用草稿纸，而是小黑板呢？</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>因为动静大。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>你想想，每天晚饭后，你搬出小黑板往客厅一放，画格子填数字，面带微笑循循善诱地和你的孩子玩着游戏。重点是，开发大脑提升智力的游戏。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>在客厅里往来走动的，你爸你妈，或岳父岳母，还有你老婆，每个人都会侧目相看、心中叹服。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>这是我儿子吗？这是我女婿吗？这是我老公吗？</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>不，这就是一个伟大的儿童教育家！</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>但是你不能浮躁，不能三天打鱼两天晒网。你得陪着你的孩子，继续挑战数独世界里的星辰大海。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>你们面前的，还有六宫格。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>和九宫格。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>相应的海量题目，在网上都能找到。解题的思路，也始终是观察和推理。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>比如这道六宫格的题目，红线所在的列不可能有4了，所以右上角的方框，4只能在这里。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>另一条红线所在的行不可能有3了，所以右上角的方框，3只能在这里。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>1、2、3、4、6都有了，剩下来的格子里只能是5。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>当攻克了六宫格，九宫格也就指日可待了。</span><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>陪孩子这几年玩下来，我发现数独真的是一款大人小孩都能玩的，久玩不腻的益智游戏。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>一个爸爸，如果能积极地教孩子玩玩这样的游戏、认认字，是不会被叫猪队友的。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><strong style='font-size: 16px; color: rgb(255, 80, 80); font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; orphans: 4; white-space: pre-wrap; caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);'><span style='font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;'>▼</span></strong></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>当然，做爸爸需要内外兼修。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>在家表现殷勤，出门也要身影活跃。做到锻炼孩子脑力的同时，也时刻不忘强健其体魄。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>你得陪她去郊外的山野感受自然。然后在她贵体稍乏的时候，自觉地抢在妈妈之前，按捺住中年人惯有的疲惫说：</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>你得陪她去商场的乐园上天入地。然后对着她端上来的，用积木做的蛋糕说：</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>你得陪她去海边的沙滩刨坑寻宝。然后面对她堆了一下午的，平平无奇的小土包说：</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><br></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>久而久之，你就会相信，自己是能够做一个好爸爸的。渐渐的，孩子会越来越亲近你、喜欢你、需要你。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>而你的老婆，也就是孩子的妈妈，也会相信。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>相信汉语真的是世界上最伟大的语言，只需平平凡凡几个字，就能汇成一句朗朗上口、她一说出来便会感觉身心舒畅的话——</span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'>去！找你爸！你爸最棒了！</span></section><section style='margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span style='font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 15px;'></span></section><p style='margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;'></span></p></div>
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